Wednesday 15 October 2014

Meeting His Parents



"I guess it is time for you to meet them", he sipped his coffee gently and looked at her trying to decipher her reaction.
"Time to meet whom", she questioned scanning the menu.
"My parents obviously. You've always asked so much about them. Don't you want to meet them now?"
"Ummm... You know I am a little skeptical. You've known how different we are when it comes to our respective backgrounds. I am not very sure they'll appreciate the fact that we have been together for a while."
"What makes you think so? What matters is where you are right now and not where you were before. At this point of time you have graduated from the same university as I have and that too with a scholarship and grades higher than mine. We both work in MNC's. So right now you are in a better light than me", he smirked stroking her cheek.
"You use silverware at home?"
"Where does that come from?"
"No I saw that in one of your photographs. I mean really? Do you?"
"Well yes we do. You are very observant. You know mum is a little finicky about table etiquette sometimes. But don't you think we should focus on more important things like the questions they might ask?"
"I do not know how to use fork and knife", she declared.
"Most of us don't ", he was still sipping his coffee with the same ease.
"I want to learn. I don't want to appear rustic in front of your parents."
"Huh?"
He was clearly displeased.
"See my parents are not going to judge you. Had you asked me how to use a fork and knife because you wanted to know I would have gladly accepted but then for this reason I am afraid but I am hurt. You are perfect the way you are. You are going to meet them and not please them for God sake."
She shifted uneasily in her chair. She stuck her lower lip out like she always did when she was sad.
"I just wanted to be perfect."
He smiled at her innocence. She was so naive, so child like. Her craze for perfection suited her fierce desire to win under any circumstance, it being the reason for his fatal attraction towards her that resulted in love.
"Okay so you hold the knife in your right hand  and the fork in your left", he gestured using both his hands.
"No no you are wrong. We eat with our right hand so fork should be in the right one na", she seemed visibly confused.
"See the deal is you are a right handed person. You exert more force with your right hand which is necessary to cut the food and that brings us to the conclusion so as to why you hold the knife in your right hand", he smiled victoriously at the show of his knowledge secretly thanking his mother for the grilling table manners.
"Oh!", she hit her head with her palm.
"Now dig deep into the food cutting it with the edge trying to push the other half away."
She stared at him.
"Oh ho see", he held her hand and taught her.

"Hello ma'am and sir", she stammered as she stood in front of his parents wearing her best dress.
His mother engulfed her into a hug and his father wore a smug smile.
"It is lovely to meet you. My son always keeps talking about you. Let's get to the dining room. I have the tea and snacks ready", his mother spoke excitedly.
She felt like that little child who gets nervous before the exam after days of practice and study.
Her mental thoughts were running wild.
*Oh! Sandwitches. Thank God no knife and fork. Wait. Did I say that too early? Why are they using a knife and fork? Oh my God*
She felt someone tugging the hem of her dress only to realize that her love was staring at her.
"Mum is asking you something. Are you okay", he questioned.
"Umm yes yes I am totally fine. It is just that I was lost in some random thoughts. Not that it always happens but then sometimes it does", she was amazed rather ridiculed by her own verbosity.
"It is okay beta. Calm down", his mother said suppressing a  smile.
She fidgeted with the knife.
"So how are your parents?"
She was still busy dissecting the sandwitches pulling it apart like a surgeon operating his patient.
Across the table he could see how uncomfortable she looked. Her entire concentration was on the sandwitch and her way of eating than the conversation. He was slightly amused by her flabbergasted ways but then the fact that she was not being herself bothered him regardless of how funny the situation seemed.
He held his sandwitch in his hand and took a big bite.
"Yum!! It's great mum."
"Why aren't you using the cutlery  darling?"
"Mum it tastes the same without them. Why don't you try it as well", he asked his girlfriend.
She glared at him.
"What? Try it out."
She did the same and smiled.
"Yeah mum was asking about your family", he blurted out.
The conversation went on and on. He winked at her several times secretly giving her thumbs up every time she spoke something really nice. She felt a lot better.
The conversation steered to her family background sooner than she expected.
"Ma'am my father was a government employee and my mother a teacher. We belong to a very humble background. My parents have worked very hard and so have I. We value money and it's origins."
"Oh that is lovely. That is how every girl rather every child should be. Now I know why my son has become so responsible off late. I guess he has credits to do", she raised an eyebrow throwing accusatory glances at her son.
"Well yes mum. She is just so perfect. She was the topper of our batch", he patted her back.
His father who was quiet through out the conversation finally broke his silence.
"He is an impulsive man. How do you manage to put up with his recklessness?"
She blushed a little and cleared her throat.
"The same way he deals with the ignorance of my mind, the insecurities of my heart and the specks of impurities in my soul."
"Our son has grown up. His choice of a life partner makes me proud. Welcome to the family", his father extended a handshake.
She was shell shocked by the sudden change of events. She sucked in breath and smiled confidently.

Back at her home, after changing into her night clothes, she messaged him.
*Thank you. Your parents are really nice. I am a little tired. We'll talk tomorrow. Good night.*
Instantly her cell beeped.
*We wouldn't talk tonight? huh huh Meanie!! Well now that you are officially mine and very soon you''ll be sleeping next to me so I guess one night wouldn't hurt. My parents will be coming over to meet yours tomorrow. Good night.*
She pulled her diary out of her Almira and sat down to write.
It is strange how life decides to teach us different lessons. I vividly remember the first time I met him. I was so judgmental. I always thought people who were rich are mean , obnoxious and have an easy life. I had this strange animosity towards him. But then we started talking. His easy ways, down to earth thinking wooed me. I was smitten by his inquisitiveness. There are many things that I really adore about him. Unlike me he doesn't judge people and has this strange quality of finding the good in people. He is highly optimistic. The best part is that he understands me in and out. Even today just by looking at me he could know that I wasn't comfortable and with so much ease he just solved the problem. This is him. Always standing there to help me out. So many times I have given up hope but he would challenge me yet again, losing at times just to see me win. Male ego is cruel but then I never saw his as if he deliberately killed his ego in order to love me fully. What have I done to deserve him? His love? His care? I wish I knew. It is sheer destiny that I met him. Isn't it? He says I am different and I guess if he says so then I might also be. But then he says only good things about everyone. With him I do not feel the need to put up a pretense or be what I am not. With him , I am me.
Love if I am asked to define would be what I see in his actions more than his words. Love is a verb not a noun . Love is him . And now he is mine. I so wish to laugh and cry at the same time. The absurdity of my statement might amaze you but that is how I feel. He gets my emotions do a salsa. I love him. I do not say that often but I do. And I know that he knows.
Good Night.

6 comments:

  1. Always amazed anew... (y)

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    1. Thank you and as I always say always put your name when you comment

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  3. Fork and knife are overused in India by supposedly sophisticated people.
    I am quite comfortable using a fork and knife, but I've always eaten pizza using my hand only. Quite a few friends and well-wishers requested me to use fork and knife to eat pizza. My reply was, "I like it this way, and there's nothing wrong." On my first visit to Italy (birthplace of pizza), I found that the Italians eat pizza using hands only! So much for our so-called sophisticated people!

    You may like to read my post http://proactiveindian.com/2013/07/16/imported-is-always-better/

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  4. Even
    my personal experience relate to the same. I did nt knw how to use
    knife and fork. At that time, the man who was seeing me taught me how
    to. But then it was never a compulsion. I find people in India relating
    everything to pseudo coolness. Eating with fork and knife is totally in.
    They forget that with certain food it is easier. The entire purpose is
    to make eating comfortable and easy rather than sophisticated.

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